Frankly speaking, no one likes to budget his/her finances. It is quite a boring and unpleasant task.
Some try to put it off for tomorrow; but the tomorrow never comes.
Some do a half-hearted attempt; it serves no real purpose.
Some start enthusiastically; but within a few months are back to square one.
Some don’t fool themselves; they never even start.
Budgets, however, can be very rewarding. A good budget
1. Makes you ‘control’ the money, instead of money controlling you
2. Makes you ‘enjoy’ money, not ‘worry’ about money
3. Doesn’t mean ‘curbing’ your spending, but making it more ‘purposeful’
4. Protects you from getting into financial problems
Therefore, make your budgeting cool & enjoyable.
Make it a Family affair
There is no reason why as a money-earner, only you should be making the budget, which the others have to follow. Get everyone in the family to work on the budget. Once everyone is involved in budgeting, it does not remain just a job to be completed. Besides, everyone becomes more committed to it.
Have some targets
Rather than making it just an exercise of adding up your incomes and expenses, make budgets something to look forward to with expectation.
Planning to buy the new model of mobile phone? For once, don’t use your credit card or opt for EMI payments. This is the easy way out; it upsets the budgets of the next few months; and you also end-up paying ‘heavy’ interest charges. Instead, keep aside some amount from your budgets for next 5-6 months and then buy the mobile phone out of the money you saved. This time mobile phone is the goal, next one can plan for playstation and an iPod thereafter and so on.
Surprise yourself
Don’t make budgeting a predictable affair. Try to bring in some novelty factor to it. For example, you don’t have to always do your budgeting on the dinner table or the living room. Maybe you can go on a picnic and do your budgets there. The whole mindset is different, when you are a picnic. As such you will enjoy it more.
Or once in a while you could ask you kids to make the budget!
Dare to do more
There will always be times in your lives, when you are running short of cash. Instead of getting worried or resorting to borrowing, dare to do more.
Think how you can ‘save’ more money: No expenses are fixed. If you think divergently, you can always finds ways to spend less, without cutting down on any items.
Think how you can ‘earn’ more money: Sometimes, you could take-up a part-time job in the evenings or weekends and supplement your main income. The economic growth today has opened up lot of avenues for moonlighting.
Challenges bring excitement to budgeting. And when you achieve success in your ventures, the feeling it brings with it is simply great.
Think beyond Money
This may, at first, sound contradictory as budgeting is all about managing your money efficiently. But that is the moot point. No one needs money just to increase one’s bank balance. Ultimately you need money to buy things you desire – a new car, a new house, a new dress, diamond jewellery, vacation in foreign locales etc.
Therefore, think what you ‘value’ before you commit to any purchase, rather than trying to imitate your neigbours. Change you perception and thinking from ‘materialistic’ to ‘meaningful’. Not only will this bring more peace and contentment to you, but also improve your relations with your family members and the society at large.
It is not the test of your mathematical skills
One of the main reasons why budgets become boring is because we try to work to the last paise. Keep in mind that you are not appearing for some test, where you will get marks for the 100% right answer.
The idea of the budget is to broadly plan for living within your means. A few hundred spent here is or there is not going to make any significant difference to your budget. But trying to account for every penny can become mentally very taxing and you & your family will soon lose all interest in budgeting.
Don’t be too rigid
And last but not the least, be open-minded and flexible with your budgets. As mentioned in the beginning, budgets are not meant to ‘tie’ you down.
It is something like kite flying. The purpose of the thread is not to prevent the kite from flying, but to make the kite to fly with some direction and within some limits. In fact, without the thread the kite cannot fly far or fly high or fly for too long.
Budgets give you a defined economic freedom; it is not a financial restriction.
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